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Upprepande verbal ism

 

IMG_1023För några veckor sen när Charlie var sjuk tittade vi på en film tillsammans. Charlie valde till min skräckblandade förtjusning filmen My Little Pony, Vänskapsspelen. Det är den filmen när hästarna är människor. Som liten var jag mycket fascinerad av dessa små färgglada plastiga skapelser. Dem stod högst upp på min önskelista, men mina kära miljömedvetna föräldrar förbjöd dom för mig.

Första gången vi såg filmen tillsammans så bara studerade Charlie tyst och fokuserat. Och sen ville han se den en gång till. Då började han leva sig in i karaktärerna och handlingen och spelade ut den tillsammans med mig. Han gav mig rollen som Twilight Sparkle och själv var han hennes hund som heter Spike.

Efter detta kallar Charlie mig för Twilight oftare än mitt eget namn Emilia. Och han upprepar ofta frågan – Twilight Sparkle, berätta när du blev ett monster. Detta ser vi som en ism. En trygghet i att kolla av och kommunicera med mig. Jag vet inte hur många gånger jag har svarat på denna fråga och dem första veckorna kändes det lugnt och motiverande för mig. Men efter ett tag började jag uppleva frustation, irritation och mitt tålamod brast. Så hur kan jag gå vidare med denna ism?

En sak som är vanlig i situationer som denna är att vi vill undvika vår frustation, vi vill snabbt komma ur dem. Men hur skulle det vara att använda sig av frustationen, att faktiskt tillåta känslan att komma och istället för att trycka undan den få lov att pysa ut den? Det jag har fått erfara är att autistiska barn känner in människor och deras sinnesstämningar på ett djupare plan än andra. Så om dem redan känner av frustrationen, vad är mest ärligt, trycka bort den eller pysa ut den?

Kanske Twilight just idag är sur, arg och irriterad, då svarar hon med dem känslorna. Inte riktat till barnet, utan kanske mot dem andra karaktärerna i filmen.

Kanske är Emilia irriterad, då kan jag rikta den känslan mot en leksak.

–Batman, jag har ju sagt miljoner gånger att du inte får berätta hemligheten om när Twilight blev ett monster, det är ju hemligt ju…

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Det bästa med att ha ett team är att vi kan ta upp situationer som denna. Det är precis vad jag kommer göra. Håller er uppdaterade på hur vi går vidare! / Emilia

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